Questions to Ask on Senior Living Tours
Updated August 7, 2025 | Lisbeth Cano
When it’s time to consider senior living for an aging parent, the sheer number of options can feel overwhelming.
Touring facilities is a critical step, but knowing what to look for and what questions to ask can make all the difference.
This guide will help you prepare.
Types of Senior Living Facilities
Senior living encompasses various types of care:
| Facility Type | Description |
|---|---|
| Assisted Living | Help with daily activities like bathing, dressing, medication |
| Nursing Homes | 24-hour skilled nursing care and medical supervision |
| CCRCs | Offer a range of care—from independent to skilled nursing—on one campus1 |
How to Prepare Before Touring a Senior Living Facility
Before you step foot in any facility:
- Evaluate care needs now and anticipate future needs
- Research online ratings, reviews, and state inspections
- Print a checklist to bring on tours
- Write down deal-breakers and must-haves
🗣️ Essential Questions to Ask During the Tour
“It can be hard to know where to start when choosing long-term care.” — National Institute on Aging2
🏥 Facility and Staff
- How many residents live here?
- Is there a waitlist?
- What is the staff-to-resident ratio?
- How long have the key staff (e.g., facility director, nurses) worked here?
- Are licensed nurses on-site 24/7?
❤️ Care Services
- What levels of care are provided?
- Is there a memory care unit?
- How are personalized care plans created and updated?
- Are medical or rehab services on-site or contracted?
“Ask about staff training and care for residents with memory loss.” — National Institute on Aging3
See also:
Memory Care
Talking About Dementia Care
🛡️ Safety and Environment
- Is the building clean and well-maintained?
- Are there emergency call buttons, handrails, and backup power?
- What is the disaster response plan?
- How is infection control managed?
- What are the procedures to report and prevent elder abuse?
“During the pandemic, key questions include infection control measures, communication with families, staffing levels, and protective equipment availability.” — AARP Florida4
See:
Home Safety
Emergency Planning
🎯 Daily Life and Activities
- What social, recreational, and enrichment activities are offered?
- Are resident suggestions encouraged?
- Is transportation available?
- Are meals customizable for dietary needs?
đź’° Cost, Billing & Contracts
- What’s the monthly base rate?
- Are extra services (like medication help or laundry) charged separately?
- Are deposits refundable?
- Under what conditions might someone be asked to leave?
See:
Assisted Living Costs
Understanding Assisted Living Contracts
✔️ Tips to Get the Most Out of the Visit
- Visit multiple times at different hours
- Drop in unannounced
- Observe staff-resident interactions
- Speak with current residents and families
- Bring a checklist (e.g., Medicare Nursing Home Checklist)5
“Medicare.gov also provides star ratings based on inspections, staffing, and quality measures.” — Medicare.gov6
🧠Trusted Resources for Choosing a Facility
- Eldercare Locator: Local support and services
- Medicare Care Compare: View star ratings, inspections, staffing
- National Institute on Aging: Long-term care guidance2
- AARP Guides: Housing checklists, CCRCs, caregiver tips1
“The more you know going into a tour, the more confident you’ll feel making the right decision.” — National Institute on Aging2
By preparing ahead and asking the right questions, you’ll gain clarity and peace of mind—helping you choose a community where your loved one can thrive.
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Meet the author: Lisbeth Cano earned her medical degree from Universidad de Iberoamérica in Costa Rica and worked as a doctor before becoming a clinical researcher. She now focuses on senior care, writing evidence-based guides for SeniorCanvas.com to help families make safer, smarter decisions for aging parents.
